I am just sharing my opinion here: As we all have been reading all these family confessions from a long time. I would like to share one thing which is instead of getting married with comparison thoughts in mind, it is better to live alone and enjoy the life, so that your life partner will not gets effected because of you. And also, remember one thing, if our parents were also having the same diversified and sick mindset like most of the people currently have, we wouldn't be here in this world. So, Its the individual responsibility to sustain their family pride and family tree which is the Pride of Indian Marriage System. Everyone can have liberty to do what they want but the consequences are also to be brought to them only but to their life partners and families. If this martial illegal affair trends will not dissolve, then there will be a danger ahead to the future generation that they will not have common parents like we are having currently.